Sunday, January 11, 2009

The Curious Case of Benjamin Button

We saw "The Curious Case of Benjamin Button" this evening. It was a lush, full, gentle story and I loved it.

It reminded me that we are ourselves throughout our lives. We grow, change and mature; yet we are still our essential selves all along. Our body is not who we really are. It is what carries us through the many adventures of life, but at some point it lets us all down.

I have felt betrayed by my body in many ways over the past year and a half. I have had my strength and vitality yanked away from me like a rug from under my feet. I am scarred and I limp and I hurt. But I am still me. I feel the same inside; still looking out from the same eyes.

Our society places so much emphasis on youth and beauty. I don't know many people who are gorgeous but I am fortunate enough to know so many people who shine with such deep goodness, fun and honesty. My life is beautiful, joyous and satisfying. So what if I look like I've been through the wringer, been dragged around the block a few times – I have! But I'm still here and so grateful. My body may no longer be a wonderland but it's no house of horrors either. It is a treasured vessel that carries my vibrant soul. I hope it will carry me a lot further.

It is a rare movie that can tell you a story that takes you far out of yourself but then returns you gently back home; thankful to be here. "The Curious Case of Benjamin Button" is such a movie and I highly recommend it to you!